Continuing from part 2 of this topic, it is important for a wife (and the others), if she expects to keep her husband interested in her sexually, to provide "healthy" sexual stimulation. I believe that this often, unfortunately, gets ignored and overlooked. We've already discussed the importance of being clean on the outside. But what about "inner" cleanliness? What about clean lungs, a clean stomach, perhaps a clean colon? Did you know that a thin layer of flesh separates the lower colon from the vagina? There are times when if this area of the colon is full of "crap" (literally), sex, for the woman, can be a bit uncomfortable. Not to mention that when bowel sits in the colon it has a tendency to create "gases"; this too can create some unpleasant experiences during love making sessions. Try adding more fiber to your diet in the form of more fruits and vegetables, some whole-grain cereal, and perhaps a laxative at least once a month to help clean out all of the junk we average Americans tend to consume on a regular basis (I've found that about 12 dried plums,or "prunes", accomplishes the same thing).
And, at the risk of sounding socially redundant, proper diet and exercise, or lack of, is a major contributor to how you both look and feel. Although this is not exactly a new concept, when you look at all of the overweight and out of shape wives out there, one has to wonder whether or not this is the first time we're hearing this. I mean it's like the minute women graduate high school, have a baby, or get married, ALL exercise appears to come to a halt. One of the things I miss most about high school is that everyday, for four years, I was literally surrounded by great looking females with nice bodies. Now someone may say in defense, "Well, that's because they're teenagers; so what do you expect". Just because you're over 25 and married with a child or more does not mean that physical attractiveness has to end, or at the very least, take a mild or significant dive. If you have the mindset to make a good balanced diet and exercise as regular a part of your life as watching the nightly news or Desperate Housewives, I promise you'll look and feel better;
almost like in those high school days.
When you can look in the mirror and like what you see, and you feel good mentally and physically, not only will you be more appealing eye candy to your husband, but you bring a certain type of attitude and confidence to the bedroom that is alluring, appealing, and attractive. Many women tend to not be in a mood for sex simply because they don't "feel" attractive, even if their man is trying to reassure them that they are. My wife, Yolanda, is 42 years young; and people say to her, "gee, you're so young and good looking for your age". What? You're suppose to look good and attractive at 42. If you don't, then you didn't properly maintain yourself.
One final thought on the health portion of this discussion: Diet, exercise, and attitude has a lot to do with whether or not we not only contract many types of diseases (like cancer for example), but also how fast we heal from these diseases, or if we ever heal from them at all. With that said, there are relationships that have suffered sexually, due to one of the partners, particularly the woman, having some sort of sickness. At the risk of sounding insensitive, disease and sickness isn't sexy. Try and tell me that after chemo treatment, and a loss of hair, that your wife is still considered "hot" enough for you to want to rip her clothes off and "split her apart", so to speak. In general, I don't think so! Now Please don't miss understand me: I'm not saying a man no longer has feelings of love and commitment towards his sick bride, I'm just saying that from a sexual standpoint, there is a certain member of a man's anatomy that doesn't exactly stand stiffly to attention for a woman that's been vomiting due to radioactive invasive treatment. All I'm trying to say is that it is vitally important for a woman to be healthy in order to help maintain a man's sexual appetite for her.
At this point, there is something that I feel I need to explain about the sexual nature of us men to sort of help put this conversation in perspective. Keep in mind, my dear friends, that I'm not claiming these perspectives to be "the truth come from God". They are simply my opinions based on a lot of thought, study, and "open minded" observation. I invite you to share your thoughts and opinions on this matter. Any way, I will share man's sexual nature with you next time before getting into the "vibrant" part of a woman's sexual stimulation for her man.
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